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Why Narcissists Hate Boundaries and How to Protect Yourself

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Michael "Thunder" Phillips
Dec 12, 2024
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An illustration depicting a person standing firmly inside a glowing, protective circle, symbolizing their boundaries, while shadowy figures representing manipulation and narcissism press against the circle from the outside. The figures are distorted and chaotic, emphasizing their invasive nature, but the person inside remains calm and determined, holding a light symbolizing self-awareness and strength. The background transitions from dark and stormy tones outside the circle to warm and serene hues within it, symbolizing the safety of upheld boundaries.

Narcissists and individuals with similar personality disorders thrive on control, manipulation, and the exploitation of others to meet their emotional needs. Boundaries—whether they are physical, emotional, or mental—challenge that control, often prompting narcissists to violate and undermine them. For their targets, this behavior is not only confusing …

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