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The Narcissist’s Manipulative Tactic: Moving the Needle to Maintain Control

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Michael "Thunder" Phillips
Jan 11, 2025
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A symbolic illustration representing narcissistic manipulation, focusing on the concept of 'moving the needle.' The image shows a scale or needle shifting back and forth erratically, while a figure in the background subtly manipulates it with strings like a puppeteer. The victim in the foreground looks confused and frustrated, holding a journal to document the erratic changes. The background transitions from chaos on one side to clarity and empowerment on the other, symbolizing the journey from manipulation to self-awareness and protection.

Narcissists are masters of subtle manipulation, often employing tactics that leave their victims feeling powerless, frustrated, and even questioning their sanity. One of their most insidious tools is the ability to “move the needle.” This tactic involves constantly shifting expectations, agreements, and narratives to control their victims, evade account…

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