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How ADHD and Autism Challenge a Narcissist’s Need for Control and Perfection

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Michael "Thunder" Phillips
Dec 26, 2024
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A powerful digital illustration showing a male neurodivergent individual (diverse features, wearing casual clothing) standing confidently in front of a looming shadowy figure representing a narcissist. The narcissist’s shadow is exaggerated, ominous, and attempting to reach for the man, but he is surrounded by a glowing shield of light, symbolizing resilience and self-protection. The background is a blend of chaos on one side (dark and stormy) and calm on the other (bright and peaceful), representing the contrast between the narcissist’s control and the individual’s reclaimed power. The atmosphere is empowering and hopeful.

For individuals with ADHD or autism, navigating relationships can be complex, especially when dealing with someone who has narcissistic tendencies. While those with ADHD and autism don’t intentionally provoke others, their unique traits and behaviors can inadvertently challenge a narcissist’s need for control, dominance, and perfection. This dynamic oft…

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